24 Positive Small Sentences That Will Change Others April 24, 2013

24 Positive Small Sentences

(That Will Change Others)

 



24 Positive Small Words (Sentences, really)

1. I love you.
2. Thank you.
3. Excuse me.
4. I care.
5. You are special.
6. Good morning.
7. How are you?
8. That was very nice.
9. I understand and admire your courage.
10. Your smile is like sunshine.
11. You have such a good listening ear.
12. The things you do are important.
13. You did a great job.
14. We can do this together.
15. You inspire me by trying.
16. I appreciate you.
17. Your sharing makes a difference.
18. You were missed when you were gone.
19. You have brought joy into my life.
20. You can do it.
21. I noticed your kind deed.
22. I enjoyed being with you.
23. You are never alone.
24. You touched my heart.

Credit:  www.boomerplaces.com

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He Is Impossible To Resist--Even At My Age April 24, 2013

He Is Impossible To Resist--Even At My Age

 

April 24, 2013


Shahrukh Khan
Photo Credit:  www.india-forums.com


Shahrukh Khan
Photo Credit:  www.shahrukhkhanofficialsite.blogspot.com

Click here to watch Shahrukh Khan and Kareena Kapoor, "Chammak Challo."

Click here to watch Shahrukh Khan and Kareena Kapoor, "Dildara."


Shahrukh Khan and his beautiful family
Photo Credit:  www.todaynewz.com

"Namaste," to all of my friends around the world. 


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So Many Choices--So Little Time April 21, 2013

So Many Choices--So Little Time

April 21, 2013

 

Bike riding

 

Bowling

 

London, England

 

Cruising on Queen Mary II

 

 

Teaching in China

 

Condos in Celebration, Florida

 

Fishing Florida waters

 

Senior Centers

 

Working at Disney World

 

Working at home

 

Working at the beach

 

Not working at anything

 

     In 6 months, work will be officially finished for me.  I can sit perfectly still on Sunday evening, every Sunday evening, and my brain will not be focused on the work for Monday morning.

 

     In 6 months, work will cease to be part of my social conversation.  I will officially have absolutely nothing to discuss on a professional basis.

 

     In 6 months, I will be the same person, but not the same professional.  Who will I be and where will I be on the day after I retire?

 

     This is the same question I asked myself when I started writing this blog in November of 2012.  I have come full circle with no definite decisions or exciting plans for my future. 

 

     What I have come up with is an endless pool of possibilities for my future.   However, I just read a quote that goes something like this:  "A goal without a plan is only a wish." 

 

     It is time to make a plan.  Or a fresh pot of decaf coffee. 

 

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I Took The Big Leap---Applied To Teach In China April 15, 2013

I Took The Big Leap--Applied To Teach In China

 

April 15, 2013

 

 

 

 

     Way back in February, I wrote about an opportunity to apply to be a Foreign Trainer for Disney in China.  Several people have asked me if I ever applied, but no I didn't.

 

      Last night, I received another notice to apply for this position, so I did:  I filled out the Disney application to work for a year teaching English to children ages 2-12, using the Disney specialized curriculum. 

     Here is a quote from part of the job description:
"No one speaks the language of children better than Disney, and nothing captures their imaginations more than a great story. Disney English combines the art of Disney storytelling, breakthrough language learning methodology and innovative technology to inspire learners’ passion for English. Since the opening of our flagship Center in Shanghai in 2008, Disney English has been sharing the gift of English with thousands of children across China. By providing an award-winning academic curriculum and engaging children with their favorite Disney stories, songs and characters; Disney English creates a fun, lively, and highly effective learning environment."

 

      My motivation came from looking at so many traveling choices to fill my time after retirement.  They all looked lovely but they all cost a small fortune.

 

      I recalled how my grandfather, from London, England, met my grandmother, from Ft. Gaines, Georgia, while both were working in China in the late 1800s.  My grandfather was an interpreter for a British exporter there, and my grandmother was a Baptist missionary.  Soooooo, I thought that at the very least, I owe my very existence to China in some small way.

 

      In any event, I submitted my application to Disney, and I'll see what happens next.  Thank you to my friends who kept asking about this job opportunity for me. 

 

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"The Birds," Tippi Hedren, and Ladybugs April 14, 2013

"The Birds," Tippi Hedren, and Ladybugs

 

April 14, 2013

This movie scared everyone in 1963, including me and my friends in high school.

 

I didn't know much about newcomer Tippi Hedren, Alfred Hitchcock's newest actress in his horror films.

 

     In March of this year, 2013, "The Birds" turned 50 years old.  I was privileged enough to attend a screening at the Florida Film Festival on April 12, 2013.  After the film ended, Tippi Hedren, now in her 80s,  was onstage for a wonderful hour of sharing her memories, good and bad, of working with Alfred Hitchcock on that film.  Here is Tippi Hedren as she shared her thoughts and memories with her audience.  We sat about 15 feet away from her.

 



Photo Credit:  Mark Baratelli, www.thedailycity.com 

 

    Photo Credit:  Mark Baratelli, www.thedailycity.com

 

 The film festival was held at the Enzian Center in Orlando, Florida, and lasted 10 days, and featured many original films, all new and all intriguing.

 

Click here to read the story of "The Birds," and to see video clips of Tippi Hedren talking about the making of the film.

 

 

Click here to see Tippi Hedren's original screen test for "The Birds," and read all about it.

 

 

     I learned several things new about the film:

 

    1. It was based on a real-life incident that happened near Alfred Hitchcock's home.  Scientists discovered through research in 1991 that the incident was caused by the gulls having eaten seafood that had been tainted with a poisonous chemical, altering their brains.

 

    2. Alfred Hitchcock became obsessed with Tippi Hedren and made her life a living hell.  Recently a movie has been made about her experiences and the tragedies he caused her for so long.  I believe it is titled, "The Girl."

 

   3. Tippi Hedron, mother of Melanie Griffith and mother-in-law to Antonio Banderas, is still lovely and charming and very intelligent, as well as very funny.

 

   4. I was immediately transported back to my high school days, during the movie, when I was a horror movie fanatic.  Ah, memories.

 

     Now as to those ladybugs:  I bought a package of live ladybugs the day after seeing the film, 1500 of them, to put on the plants in my butterfly garden to eat all the little pests that live on the plants. 

 

 

 

     You have to keep them in the refrigerator to keep them dormant until you want to release them.  Warning!  You only release as many as you wish; do not release all 1500 of them at once.  However, once you remove the package from the refrigerator, they warm up immediately and all start moving and trying to get out of the bag.

  



 

     It was like being attacked by the birds, but in miniature, and I only released about 50 of them, and they started crawling up my arms.  I dread going into my refrigerator to release more of them, as they wait in dormancy...creepy.  Alfred Hitchcock would have loved seeing this.

 

 

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Southwest Florida Eagle Cam Is Down--But Not The Eagles April 9, 2013

Eagle Cam Is Down--But Not The Eagles

 

April 9, 2013

 

Photo by Carla Sabin of parents Ozzie and Harriet teaching Honor and Hope all they need to know, now that they are pretty awesome at flying. 

 

April 4:  The eaglets celebrated their 3 month hatching anniversary.  This photo by Greg Hill is from the SWFEagle Cam Twitter site.

 

Southwest Florida Eagle Cam
"Many teachable moments have been witnessed by the pond. This picture by Greg Hill shows the two siblings looking rather peaceful and this close up video by UrdognU shows Honor giving Hope some pointers on bath time." http://youtu.be/oZmjLrcD8ec

 

 

Here is a live cam shot of the newly hatched eaglets, way back in the first week of January, 2013.

Thank you, Dick Pritchett, property owner, for installing and maintaining this live eagle camera for the world to watch, from nest filling, to egg laying, to hatching, to first flying attempts.

 

Southwest Florida Eagle Cam
"This shot by Greg Hill shows Hope is just as determined to learn new things as Honor and while he/she got close to taking a bath today, still seems a little unsure of that water stuff Honor loves!" April 4 on Facebook.

 

 

       Last Thursday, April 4, a lightning strike put the Southwest Florida Eagle Cam out of  working order.  As it could not be repaired without disturbing the eagles and young eaglets (juveniles) who still use the nest at times, the camera is now off for the rest of the season.  Here is the statement from the Southwest Florida Eagle Cam site: (located in Ft. Myers, Florida)

 

"Once the eagle family relocates for the summer months, we plan to safely fix the camera and prepare for a bigger and better season 2. You can still follow the developments of our beloved eagle family through the updates and photos brought to you here by the many amazing ground reporters and photographers. Will also plan to run past footage of the 2012-2013 season on the UStream page."

 

     While this is sad for online viewers, there are many loyal watchers on the ground who have been filling viewers' curiosity with videos and photos from their ground locations.  Here is a link to the past videos this week:

 

Click here to see the many current videos of the young eagles, Honor and Hope.

 

 

 

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Funny! How To Tell If Your Cat Is Plotting To Kill You April 6, 2013

Funny!  How To Tell If Your Cat Is Plotting To Kill You

 

April 6, 2013

 

 

 

 

This came originally from www.lehumor.com.  Cat owners will understand the humor here.

 

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Dumbest Retirement Moves and the Queen Mary II April 5, 2013

Dumbest Retirement Moves and the Queen Mary II

 

April 5, 2013

 

 

 

     Just got this book from the library, by Ernie Zelinski, who writes the Retirement-Cafe blog.  It is full of way more ideas than I have ever contemplated for my retirement years. 

 

     One list struck me as very important to remember and here it is:



Top-10 Dumbest Retirement Moves

1. Purchasing a larger home than you need or than you can afford
2. Watching a lot of TV — more than an hour and a half a day is excessive!
3. Gambling
4. Spending a lot of time shopping
5. Complaining about life
6. Being afraid to spend the kid's inheritance
7. Being a miser with your money
8. Planning to work forever — something NOT advocated in The World's Best Retirement Book.
9. Neglecting your health by not indulging in vigorous physical exercise every day
10. Not making new friendships and neglecting old friends 

 

 

     I did find an alternative in this excellent book to striking out for a trip to England on my own.  It is called Road Scholar and here is the link:

 

Here is the Road Scholar link.

 

      Road Scholar used to be called Elderhostels, and it has ready-made learning tours of almost any country you want to visit.  All lodging, food, tips, and expert guide/instructor are included.  Prices and tour lengths and dates vary, but American tours/courses are far more inexpensive than those abroad.

 

     There is even a course on London theatre, which takes place mostly on the Queen Mary II as you cross the Atlantic, 7 days, to get to London.  In London, you experience the thrill of four London West End productions and tours/history of English theatre.  Perfect!

 



 

      Let me say that the cost is rather high, but you have a famous London theatre producer/director, Giles Ramsay, as your teacher/guide for the entire 12-day experience. 

 

      Here is the course description:

• Journey from New York City to London aboard the QM2 with producer and director Giles Ramsay.
• In London’s West End, enjoy four plays that range from classical to popular, or to more contemporary and experimental.
• Gain expert insight into the historic roots of English theater in medieval drama and the impact of the Reformation and Christopher Marlowe.

 

 

     Since a transatlantic cruise will be perfect for someone who doesn't want to fly, I am thinking of booking this tour as soon as I gather the thousands of dollars it will cost me.  It's certainly something to plan for in the fall, and it will sure beat watching tv all day, won't it?

 

Note:  Photos from www.Roadscholar.com and Google.

 

 

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Finally Went Bowling--4 Months Late March 30, 2013

Finally Went Bowling--4 Months Late

 

March 30, 2013

 

    

 

What I looked like in 1986 when I bowled last...

 

What I looked like when I bowled today...

 

     Way back in this blog, November 21, I put off bowling to shop for food for the Coalition for the Homeless.  But I never stopped thinking about it.

 

     Today, a most beautiful day in Orlando, I finally made it to the nearby bowling lanes.  My neighbor went with me, and we approached the lanes with a bit of nervousness.

 

     It turned out to be lovely, although my neighbor didn't bowl, and I'm sure I'll go back very soon. 

 

     There was a ball in the rack on the lane that fit my hand perfectly.  I was surprised that I felt a little fearful as I bowled the first few frames.  I was afraid of falling, not of bowling badly.  That feeling surprised me.

 

     I got more confident, and it was very nice to return to an activity that I had enjoyed.  The last time I bowled was in 1986.  That's a loooooooooonnnnnng time to be away from bowling, isn't it?

 

     Since I managed to make a strike and a spare, my bowling skills may make a comeback with lots of practice. 

 

     There are summer leagues, so I might give that a try, after I give bowling more practice time.  I'm so glad I went, and I am so glad I still like this familiar sport. 

 

     Maybe I'll find a partner and try tennis again...

 

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Money Saving Ideas--Some Thoughts March 28, 2013

Money Saving Ideas--Some Thoughts

 

March 28, 2013

 

 

 

     While doing research for retirement activities, I found an excellent website, www.retirement-online.com .  Now I spend a lot of time there reading about activities that real seniors are doing, through their comments, chats, and photos.  

 

     Nina, from the UK, posted a discussion topic asking how others find ways to save money.  There were great ideas and strategies.

 

     This got me thinking, and here is what I contributed:

 

"I used to turn off the hot water heater switch when I left home. It saved a ton of money on electricity, as there is no reason to heat a huge tankful of water all day if no one is using it.

I wash my dishes with my dishwasher set on the short/light wash cycle. I hang my clothes outside to dry, weather permitting, because it reminds me of the good old days, and it saves much electricity. However, I live in sunny Florida where every day is pretty sunny and warm, even in the winter.

As to clothes, I donate my clothing to charities before they becomes threadbare, which helps on my income taxes, as a deduction.   I only buy new clothing that will coordinate with my other clothing pieces, so I have more choices with fewer purchases. (I buy nothing that needs dry cleaning, ever.) The same goes with shoes. Remember, you can change an older outfit just by adding a scarf.

When I am finished on the computer, I turn off the power to the power strip, otherwise, electricity is still being used.  
 
I got rid of cable tv service and am now saving $70 per month. I watch any movies or tv series online,which is covered by my internet bill.

I don't have a cell phone, ipad, ipod, etc.

I don't shop in thrift shops because I don't want to add to my possessions; I want to keep downsizing, in preparation for retirement.

I have several good books I refer to from time to time on saving money:

1001 Ways To Cut Your Expenses, by Jonathan D. Pond
Rags To Retirement, by Gail Liberman and Alan Lavine
The Automatic Millionaire, by David Bach
Retirement On A Shoestring, by John Howells
The Finish Rich Workbook, by David Bach
Organize Yourself, by Ronni Eisenberg

Most of these books were given to me; I get all my books from the public library.
 
I have a very old, very fuel-efficient car. Once or twice a year there may be a large repair, but I don't have a car payment. I also chose a car that was cheaper to insure.

I don't use my oven and stove top very much; I prefer the speed and convenience of the microwave, which uses far less electricity, and produces the same results, especially for casseroles, etc. I use a small crockpot/slow cooker for roasts and stews...again saving electricity.

That seems like a long list for now, but if I think of more, I'll add them.

If you go on www.pinterest.com you will find thousands of ways to save money, and thousands of ways to spend it also. :-)   I have one board on my pinterest site called "Frugal Good Ideas." www.pinterest.com/mimihylton You might find many good ideas there.

Oh, I almost forgot: I never carry cash; I am too tempted to spend it too easily. I don't use a debit card for the same reason. I write checks for almost everything, because I know where my money is going."

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Eaglets Flying/Fledging Very Soon! March 24, 2013

Eaglets Flying/Fledging Very Soon!

 

March 24, 2013

 

Here are our former little fluff-ball eaglets--all ready for flight training now!

Photo credit:  J. Phalp

Click here to see Honor fly/fledge to a branch 10 feet away on March 22!

 

Mostly empty nest these days--eaglets are branching most of the day.

 

Watch the eaglets take their flight training with this live eagle cam link. 

 

     This is the site of the Southwest Florida Eagle Cam, sponsored by Dick Prichett Realty, of North Fort Myers, Florida.  The nest is located on the property of Dick Prichett.  The mature eagle pair, Ozzie and Harriet, have been nesting and raising eaglets for 5 years there.  The eaglets have been named Honor and Hope.  Local residents/watchers have submitted photos taken from the ground, so we can see what eaglets and parents are up to when not in live cam range.

 

      This is one of many live eagle cams on www.ustreamtv.com and other sites.  Do some investigating to find the nest family you enjoy watching.   Type in the word eagles to get a full list of live cams.

 

      The Alcoa eagle cam, located at Davenport, Iowa, is just as fascinating, with two new mouths for Liberty and Justice to feed now: 

 

http://www.alcoa.com/locations/usa_davenport/en/info_page/eaglecam.asp

 

     There is one site, Eaglecrest Wildlife, where they are presently watching a barn owl with 8 eggs, a Canadian goose with 10 eggs, and a red-tailed hawk who has just laid her first egg of the season.  This site in Sanger, California, has 9 live cams watching all this and more on the private property.  Here is the link:

http://www.ustream.tv/new#/eaglecresthawks

 

      If you are more interested in Great Horned Owls, watch the live cam of Bonnie and Clyde who took over an eagle nest before the eagles returned for nesting season.  The location is in New London, Wisconsin.  This is a bit difficult for me to watch as the owl nests completely out in the open, and the weather there has been horrific, not to mention the mother owl has had another owl intruder almost every night.  But now, she has one owlet, and everyone is hoping for a good outcome for her and the baby.



 

Here is that link: 

 

http://www.ustream.tv/new#/channel/WolfRiverCam-New-London

 

      This is nature in real time, so whatever happens, happens, both good and bad.  In any case, get yourself on one of these sites and see nature up close, a true privilege.

 



 

 



 

Planting Today--Butterfly Plants March 24, 2013

Planting Today--Butterfly Plants

March 24, 2013

 

Pentas, in fuscia pink for nectar, attract hummingbirds also. 

 

Lavender attracts bees which kill garden pests.

 

Tropical milkweed, host of monarch butterflies' eggs.  See the caterpillar under the leaf?

"Milkweed blooms entice swallowtails, painted ladies, American ladies, red admirals, fritillaries, and hairstreaks for nectaring."  http://www.butterflybushes.com/milkweed.htm


Fennel, host plant for black swallowtail eggs

     The beginnings of my refreshed butterfly garden, plants from my local Home Depot, are waiting to be planted this morning.  Several types are needed, so you will see the major plants above that were selected:  Pentas, lavender, and tropical milkweed. 

 

     Fennel and Mexican Heather weren't available this weekend, so another trip will be needed next weekend to see if they are in stock yet.  I've got loads of zinnia seeds, the tall yellow and orange zinnias, that I'll plant among the flowers, for good measure.  Mother Nature can handle those for me.

 

     I kept several Porterweed plants in place when I cleared out the old plants last week.  Here is a photo, not my photo, and I understand the Porterweed is a hummingbird attracting plant, also.  Bees love it!

 



 

     The best part of planting a butterfly garden is the shopping part.  The hardest part is the placing and planting.  The photo below is what I hope to achieve when all of the plants are in the ground:

 

Ha-ha!  This is NOT my butterfly garden; it is the butterfly center at Callaway Gardens in Georgia!

 

 

This is more like what my garden will look like, except my garden is bordered by my sidewalk.

 

     May I encourage you to try your hand at planting something butterfly-friendly this week?  You will be rewarded with a peek into nature at its finest, and you will love the view. 

 

 

Note:  None of the photos are mine;  I got all of them from Google searches.

 

 

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Taxes, Flowers, and Spring Break! March 21, 2013

Taxes, Flowers, and Spring Break!

 

March 21, 2013

(First Day of Spring)

 

 

 

 

 

     The front garden has been cleared, so my mind has been cleared as well.  I have a short list to accomplish, and all's right with the world.  I had a wonderful yard man completely whip my lawn, shrubbery, and edging into shape...(oh happy day!)

 

     I left the shrubbery, some smaller butterfly plants, and the birdbath in my front garden, after cutting and removing all the old butterfly plants and weeds last week.  What a glorious feeling to have done what I had planned to do.

 

     Three things remain to attack during the next day or so:

*Turning in all my receipts to the tax accountant to finish my tax return (yay!)

*Purchasing the colorful butterfly-attracting new plants to be planted in my front garden this weekend (beautiful!)

*Enjoying the next 10 days of my school Spring Break (hallelujah!)

 

     I'm not traveling anywhere for my long holiday, as I had to spend over $1100 for car repairs a week ago.  I can't complain very much because my car is 13 years old!  However, I will travel 20 miles south on I-4 to my favorite theme parks, DisneyWorld and Universal Studios Orlando, where I have annual passes.  I have missed seeing Harry Potter and Mickey Mouse for the past few months.

 

     The weatherman has promised temperatures in the 80s on Saturday, even though we'll have thunderstorms.  I don't mind the rain if it's warm outside.  I send all of my condolences to those who are still enduring the freezing temperatures up north.  I don't know how you live in that kind of cold all winter.

 

     So, Happy Easter to those who are celebrating, and happy Spring to those who may have the same holidays as I have coming up!

 



 

 

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